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The  key to  maintaining relationships
                                                                              included a basis of communication.

                                                           Relationships Work


                                                                            Kate Whalen
                                                       S                             other person, then you don't know
                                                            pending a  Saturday night  communicating openly with  the
                                                            watching "the game" on tele-
                                                            vision,  or shopping to  find
                                                                                     what his or her needs are, and this
                             from  my point  of        perfectly matching Homecomjng  person doesn't know yours," senior
                                                                                     Jill Chalupnik said.
                                                       outfits rllight not be one's idea of a
                                                                                            Sharing similar interests
                                    vzew               hot date, but students often made   was  also beneficial to  couples.
                                                       such  sacrifices  in  order to  keep
                                                       their relationships growing.   "Compatibility is  a must, whether
                                                              Most students said that the   it is in  school, hobbies or personali-
                                                       keys to a good relationship lay  in   ties," sophomore J onathan Collis
                                                       the basis of communication, simi-  said.
                                                       lar interests, and spending time to-  Spending time  together
                                                       gether doing both  enjoyable and   was  a key  to  learning more about
                                                       not so enjoyable activities.   the other person. "Every day I learn
                                                              Without communication,  somethjng new about my boyfriend,
                                                       students said that relationships had   and that's what keeps it  interest-
                                                       no structure  or point. "If  you aren't  ing," senior Sara Precht said.  r

                               Camille Caverhill
                                     junior

                                   I think the keys
                            to a good relationship
                            are  trust,  honesty,
                            communication,  kind-
                            ness,  compassion,
                            friendship, and the list
                            goes on.  I also think
                            that you need to spend
                            time  with  each  other
                            whenever you can, but
                            I don't think you  need
                            to spend every waking
                            moment together.
                                   When  I  spend
                            time  with  someone,  I
                            like  to  do fun  and  ex-
                            citing th ings.  Some of
                            the mostfun dates that
                            I have been on include:
                            playing miniature golf
                            and going to a movie,
                            going on  a picnic with
                            a lot of people playing
                            sports, ordering pizza,
                            and  watching fire-
                            works.



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